Wednesday, February 22, 2017

Christianity is not synonymous with doormat

There are teachings going around that if you don't agree with someone you don't love them. It also teaches that you are to keep your opinions to yourself unless it agrees with everyone else's opinion. This kind of attack happens to Christian's the most as we are taught in the Bible to love everyone and most people whether they are Christian or not know that the Bible teaches you are to love everyone. It's gotten to a point now as Christian's if we even get angry we are told we are not being kind and loving. It now seems expected of all Christian's to shut up, agree with everyone, and let themselves be walked all over by everyone. Some Christian's are going along with this after all Jesus did teach to turn the other cheek and the Bible says that vengeance belongs to the Lord. So since this is what is happening it's been on my heart to set the record straight....

So first thing's first. Since we are all supposed to be loving it's best to know what love is. So what is love? The Bible says and I quote "love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV. Nowhere in there does it say to never say no or to set a boundary. I don't see that at all, do you? I see nowhere in there that it says to agree with everyone all the time. After all everyone at one time or another can be wrong it happens nobody but GOD knows everything and can be right about everything all the time...

Now I will point out that yes it says love is not easily angered but it doesn't say never gets angry at all. After all, GOD is love and He gets angry at stuff. Remember Jesus GOD's begotten Son and also GOD got angry and overturned tables and chased people with a whip. Yes, that's righteous anger but it's still anger and so anger is not in itself a sin. Anger can't be a sin because Jesus got angry and He never sinned. So it's not a sin to be angry it's what you do with your anger that can be sinful. There are good healthy ways to let out anger such as discussing with the one your angry at why your angry at them, there are stress balls, could also write a letter of what is causing your  anger just vent and when your done tear it up and throw it away, there's also the empty chair therapy where you get an empty chair pretend the one you're angry at is sitting there and give em what for. There are many healthy ways to let out anger and you do need to let out anger as Dr. Sigmund Freud said anger turned inward is depression...

We must also set healthy boundaries and we do need to stand up for ourselves and say no. There is no sin in setting boundaries and saying no. Nowhere in the Bible does it say thou shalt not set a boundary. Thou shalt not say no. It's just not there.  We do need to say no because like I said before no one but GOD is right all the time. Also, it's not just a matter of being right or wrong if someone walks up to you and says "I'm going to steal your identity all that you have and own and I want you to just agree with me and accept that" are you really going to agree and accept that? Seriously? Now that is an exaggeration but the point remains we as Christians need to stand up for ourselves. If we don't stand for ourselves than we have forgotten who we are and who we belong to...

We Christian's are

Children adopted by the most high GOD
Friends of the most high GOD
GOD is the King of kings so that makes us royalty as well
We are temples of the Holy Spirit
We are the light of the world
We are the salt
We are blessed
We are saved
We are loved
We are precious

This list can go on and on but you can look up for yourself in the Bible who you are in Christ...

Also, not only are we to love other's but we are to love ourselves. It's part of the second greatest commandment. "And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as you love yourself" Matthew 22:39 NIV. The second part of that as you love yourself. Remember GOD created us in His image and He loves us so we are to love ourselves and letting people walk all over us treating us like doormats is not loving ourselves. Plus it is loving to correct a neighbor and say no to them. It isn't loving at all to never say no or not correct your neighbor. After all remember Jesus never sinned and yet He did say no sometimes He did correct people and He still does. So that proves my point again that it isn't a sin to say no or set a boundary....

I'm a Christian but I'm nobody's doormat I'm a daughter of the risen King. I do love you but I will say no I will set boundaries because not only do I love you but I also love myself. I may not agree with all of your opinion's and that's ok because you may not agree with all of mine...

Christianity is not synonymous with doormat. 

Monday, January 2, 2017

My new year's resolution's

Most people make only one new year's resolution. The most popular new year's resolutions in no particular are....

- lose weight

- save money

- get a job

- reconnect with family and/or friends

- get more organized

- learn something new

- enjoy life

- worry less

- take care of oneself better

- quit smoking

- fall in love

- get a new hobby

- travel

- read more

So I wanted to make a new year's resolution or rather make that several new year's resolutions and I'm determined to keep my resolution's. Most people only keep their resolution's for only a month or so and then drop them and go back to their old habits. I've done this myself with past resolutions of not keeping them and going back to my old ways. This year I'm determined to keep my resolution's. So here are my new year's resolution's in no particular order...

- Spend more time with GOD in Bible reading, prayer, and devotionals

- Trust GOD more and worry less

- Write a book and hopefully publish it

- Clean my closet it's a real mess in there and I been wanting to clean it for a while it's time to get that done

- Set up an email address for this blog

So that's it that's all I wanna accomplish this year. It's not much but those things are very important to me and I wanna get em done so this year I'm going to do them all. I've already started typing stuff out for my book. My book is going to be my walk with GOD with Autism. I'll share more on that once I got more written down and if I publish it I'll definitely share links on here where you can buy it.... So what are your new year's resolutions?

Friday, November 25, 2016

Black Friday

So today is Black Friday which is America's biggest shopping day. Although with people camping out in tents outside stores on Thursday it may one day be called Black Thursday & Friday. Many people waited for several hours just to get their hands on the best deals. Most were waiting to buy big screen TV's, laptops, gaming consoles, tablets, cell phones, and drones those were this year's hottest items on for sale today.

Now let me ask you something. Is any of these things worth trampling someone over for?? Are they worth physically fighting with someone for?? Are they worth killing for? Are they worth you possibly being trampled or sent to the hospital or dying for? People seem to turn into violent senseless zombie animals on Black Fridays. Here are some video links of some of today's Black Friday chaos. (All videos not mine I found them all on YouTube.)


Black Friday Zombies















Brawls across the nation over jumbo TV's















Fights and beatings on Black Friday















Black Friday Walmart fight















Black Friday Walmart fight part 2



Black Friday 2016 chaos compilation



Now is it worth?? Is any of that really worth it when you can buy the same thing for the same deal on the internet. Cyber Monday is coming up and most sites now also do Black Friday. So why be trampled when you can buy the same thing online??

Here are some great online Black Friday deals.

Amazon is having a Black Friday deals week. Here at this link, you can see the Amazon deal of the day plus the stuff you may have missed. Amazon Black Friday Deals Also on Amazon 5% cash back now through December 31st on up to $1,500 on purchases. Click that link for details.

Barnes and Noble is having great Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals and sales on books, notebooks, kindles, signed editions, nook tablets, and lots of other great stuff. Check it out click this link Barnes and Noble sales

Macy's is having great online doorbusters Black Friday sale shop now on their site through November 26th for all their Black Friday sales. They also have free shipping at $50 excluding furniture and mattresses. Please click on this link for more Macy's Black Friday sales

Target is having a fantastic 10 days of deals online sale on almost everything they sell. Click this link for more Target Black Friday sales

American Eagle Outfitters 40% online sales and free shipping. All sweaters and flannels 25$ all through today. Buy one get one free on a great assortment of clothing. Click here for all their amazing sales and deals American Eagle Outfitters Black Friday deals

Express is having an amazing 50% off and free shipping on all orders online Black Friday sale. Click here for details Express Black Friday deals

Walmart is having a cyber deals week. Save up to $50 open an online Walmart account and save up to 15% off on purchases today. You can see their latest sales and deals on their app. Order online and it's free to pick up at their store. Free shipping on $50 plus orders. Click here for details Walmart Black Friday sales and deals

There are much more online stores with great online sales and deals for Black Friday and Cyber Monday click here to see them all All online Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales and deals

So instead of going out and getting hurt or killed please do all your Black Friday shopping online it's much safer. Ya, the site may freeze or crash but I'd rather deal with that then be trampled on.


Still, it's a real shame that on the night and day after we are supposed to be thankful we are going out and buying things we just don't need. Doesn't anyone in this country remember how to be thankful anymore?? Or how to behave like decent human beings?? Why do we waste our time buying finite things?? Whatever you buy won't last forever.

What makes me the most upset is I don't see people running and crowding to hear the Gospel the same way they do for Black Friday sales. Never see people camping in tents on Saturday nights outside Churches with people excited and can't wait for Sunday morning services. Where is our excitement for the Gospel??

I want to see people camped out for Sunday morning Church services. I want to see people running into Church with pure excitement to hear the Gospel. I want to see people truly thankful for the Gospel that has been given to us. Do none of us get that GOD has given us forgiveness, mercy, grace, a relationship with Him for free that we don't deserve that we can't earn?? Do none of us get the fact that GOD sent His only begotten Son to die for us His enemies we wanted to kill Him yet He died for us. We are merely a tiny speck in the great fantastic universe yet GOD loves us and has provided us a way to have a relationship with Him do we not understand that?? Do we not understand that those in other countries are dying for what we are taking for granted?? We take the Bible and Church for granted like it's always gonna be there don't have to worry about being killed for carrying a Bible or wearing a cross. You know someday we might not be so religiously liberated and it's only by the grace and mercy of GOD that we even have what religious freedoms we have today and we all need to get on our knees and thank GOD for our freedoms, His mercy, His forgiveness, His grace, His Gospel, our relationship with Him, the Bible, Church, and so many other things rather than spend that time waiting and wasting hours in some line to buy something that we don't need that won't last forever.

Again I ask where is our excitement for the Gospel?? Where is our hunger for the Gospel?? Where is our thrill for the Gospel?? Why do take the Gospel something so wonderful, so pure, so Holy, so life changing, so life-altering, such a miracle for granted??

GOD didn't have to send His Son He chose to.

Jesus didn't have to die for us He chose to.

GOD didn't have to give us the Bible or Church He chose to.

GOD doesn't have to love us He chooses to.

GOD doesn't have to give us forgiveness, mercy, grace, and so many other things He chooses to.

GOD didn't have to give us the Gospel He chose to.

GOD doesn't have to have a relationship with us He chooses to.

It doesn't make any sense to me why we are not excited more about the Gospel. I hope one day I see people as excited about the Gospel as they are about Black Friday. I hope one day I see people camped out on Saturday nights in excitement and anticipation of Church services Sunday morning. I hope one day I see crowds of people rushing into Church like they do for Black Friday sales.



Wednesday, November 9, 2016

To Donald J. Trump my new President

My most sincere congratulations to you Donald J. Trump the new President Of The United States. It was a long Presidential race and it was a hard fought race. As you said though now the real work begins. I honestly think you will make a great President but there are those who doubt. There's already those protesting your Presidency. You are going to come across challenges it won't be easy but remember this "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" Philippians 4:13 NKJV. Please remember and recite that every time you come across any challenge.  You have a great loving family. You have a great team of people working with you. Also, you have the Lord on your side and with GOD for you who on earth can come against you? I encourage you Trump in your Presidency I will keep you and your family and Mike Pence and his family in my prayers. GOD bless you both Donald Trump and Mike Pence.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV.

Dear Father in Heaven I lift up to You Donald Trump and Mike Pence and their families. I ask that You please protect them and their families. Please guide them, lead them, always give them Your guidance, wisdom, faith, hope, love, and discernment. Please bless them and continuously fill them with Your Holy Spirit. Father their path will be a challenge it will be hard. Already, Father, there are those protesting this Father GOD please use Donald Trump and Mike Pence to unite this country and lead this country. Please Father give Donald Trump and Mike Pence Your words to speak when they need to speak. Father GOD please GOD bless America. Please bless this country. Please bless the senate. Please bless congress. Please Father GOD make the congress and the senate and all of America's politicians one as You are ONE. Please Father GOD make America one as You are ONE. In Jesus Name I pray amen.

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Why I'm pro life

WARNING DISCRETION ADVISED. SOME CONTENT MAY BE DISTURBING.

I am pro-life I am against abortion. Some say abortion is a woman's choice that's why those for abortion call themselves pro-choice. I just want to know what about the child's choice? Doesn't that child deserve a right to live? Oh, that's right they view it as a tissue, not a child they say the child is not a living human. I beg to differ. If the child is not living in the first place then why the need to kill them? Something has to be alive in order to be killed. You can't kill something that isn't alive. There is also proof that the child is alive
18 days their heart is beating. A heart beat is a symptom that someone is alive don't you think so? A person's heart can't beat if they are not alive...


There are 1.1 U.S abortions each year.

There are several methods for performing an abortion. I am only going to mention a couple of those methods. The following may be very disturbing for some to read but if you are pro-choice it shouldn't bother you at all. This is what you're saying is ok if you are pro-choice.

Dilation and Curettage (D&C)
Occasionally used through the 12th week. After dilation or the cervix, a curette is inserted into the uterus. That baby's body is cut into pieces and extracted, often by suction. The uterine wall is then scraped to remove the placenta and confirm that the uterus is empty.

Dilation and Evacuation (D&E)
Performed up to 18 weeks. Forceps are inserted into the uterus, grabbing and twisting the baby's body to dismember it. If the head is too large it must be crushed in order to remove it.

Hysterotomy
Used in the last three months of pregnancy. The womb is entered by a surgical incision in the abdominal wall, similar to a C-section. However, the abdominal cord is usually cut while the baby is still in the womb, cutting off the oxygen supply and causing suffocation. Sometimes, though, the baby is delivered alive and left unattended to die.

Prostaglandin
Performed during the second half of pregnancy. A hormone-like compound is injected into the muscle of the uterus causing intense contractions and pushing out the baby. The violent contractions often crush the baby to death, though many babies have been born alive using this procedure, then left to die.

Saline Injection
Usually performed during months four through seven. A 20% salt solution (the normal salt solution is .9%) is injected into the mother's abdomen into the babies amniotic fluid. The baby ingests the solution and dies of salt poisoning, dehydration, and hemorrhaging of the brain. The baby's skin is burned off. A dead or dying baby is delivered. A baby born alive is usually left unattended to die, though some have survived.

For more methods and facts of abortion please visit these links.

http://studentsforlife.org/prolifefacts/abortion-facts/

http://www.abortionno.org/abortion-facts/

Instead of aborting your child if you don't want them why not give them up for adoption? There are many parents out there unable to have children who would love to be the parents of the child that you don't want. You may say they were conceived in rape. If that's the case I'm sorry that happened rape is a horrible, awful, evil, cruel thing that no one deserves. But that doesn't mean you should punish your child by killing them. After all, it wasn't the child's fault they were conceived in rape, was it? You may say they may be born with disabilities and they wouldn't want to live. I beg to differ. I have Asperger's and I want to live and there are dozens of people with disabilities on this planet who want to live as well.

"For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in the secret place when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be." Psalm 139: 13-16.